Loving reunions
Living a beautiful love story for life is the dream of most people! Is this possible? Yes, it is possible, and understand that success in love depends on two factors: the emotional realm and the maturity of both sides. The true emotion of love, the one that hits right away in your heart, intensely, is the recognition of souls who have already been “searching for each other” intuitively, and nurturing this love through different lives. True love is registered in the soul and cannot help but come to remembering, even through subtle feelings, life after life. Even this whole aura of romance that involves the reunion of soulmates does not prevent the end of a relationship when there is no emotional maturity. In order to a relationship to be predominantly composed by happy moments, there is a crucial factor: Security! I mean confidence, based on self-knowledge of those who know the value of themselves and, especially, feel worthy of someone’s sincere love.
So get ready to use your energy to attract from life the ideal person. This is exactly how it works: you attract new relationships according to your degree of balance, self-esteem and the beliefs you have. This vibrational pattern determines the encounter during the time you are getting involved with someone. If your self-esteem is low, you tend to attract people who little or nothing give to you. Because any attention given by others to you at this time feels like little and only some time later you realize how much the relationship was unfair and unbalanced, and that there was no exchange. But, in this case, your excessive devotion to others is not a sign of a greater love, as it is commonly believed, but rather the fear of losing!
Exactly. You do not love more because care more. Do not fool yourself. You involve the other person in care, pampering and caresses much more than get it back. When you are insecure about the value that the other gives you, you use a mechanism to try to provoke the other the recognition of your value, gratitude or retribution of your gestures. When this does not happen, it is common to play guilt trips and demands on each other. Criticism will usually stress the differences rather than reducing them and the relationship becomes a game of a power struggle, a control over the rules of the relationship and constant judgment. Love is no longer the focus and the cause of this union and it is common to use behaviours of “presence-absence”, i.e. one becomes present through kindness of a gift, or special care, and if it is not reciprocated, then immediately punishes the other with withdrawal of attention or “strike”, becoming dry, cold, silent, or with small revenges.
When you feel wronged and feed the anger and hurt of the other by playing games, you are trying to ignore your own responsibility in your choice to remain in this relationship, either by fear of loneliness or for blaming yourself for the failure of a dating or marriage. Even because of the pride of not accepting that you may have done great harm to yourself for a long time in your life.
Look at the situation from another angle. Taking responsibility for your own mistakes is also an action to regain your free will and bring back that part of your individuality that was pledged in exchange for a few crumbs of attention. Reinvent yourself! Recycle yourself and thus become able to attract a great and true love from someone who recognises in you your immense and true love for yourself! It is this self-confidence, self-worth, which can make this dream of a loving couple life come true. Because even if you find the right person, and you are immature, insecure, the mismatch may occur. In a genuine relationship there is only an everlasting love that materialises in daily gestures, words, or pure energy exchanged between the two of you in which there is no competition or demands. It radiates as an expression of souls fluttering immense happiness as they reunite, for they no longer feel alone. At the same time becoming aware that despite their evolutionary path becoming lighter since they are not travelling alone anymore, this path can only be walked individually.
Know that your soul mate, or that special someone does exist, but meeting them again requires merit and preparation from both parts. Dreaming is sending a signal to the Universe for this soul to recognize you, and come to meet you! So dream your dreams of love, recover your romanticism that is your sweet, gentle, cheerful, jovial and free way to conduct your own life and when you meet your beloved soul, you will know how to share all the pure feelings that exists within you!
